Both Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan will always be remembered for their individual strings of popular movies in the late 1980s and through the 1990s. While neither has held onto their box office popularity past that point, no one can deny what a great run they had. And during that time arguably their best film was a picture they did together, the 1989 romantic comedy “When Harry Met Sally…”.
I’ve watched this film several times but not since my VHS copy became extinct. Now I’ve revisited the movie and what a treat to learn that it still holds up after almost 15 years. It still features that same sharp wit. It still has those laugh-out-loud moments. It still has the perfect amount of romance. But most importantly, it still features two main characters that we connect with and genuinely care about.
It’s the story of Harry Burns (Crystal) and Sally Albright (Ryan) and the unique winding road their relationship travels. They first meet in 1977, both fresh out of school at the University of Chicago. Harry is dating a friend of Sally’s who encourages the two to share a drive back to New York City. During the drive the two share a number of conversations particularly their drastically different philosophies on relationships. After some hearty disagreements, they finally arrive in New York City and gladly go their separate ways.
The film then jumps ahead 5 years to when Harry and Sally bump into each other at the airport. Both are at different stages in their lives and their attitudes about relationships have slightly evolved. Later we jump ahead another 5 years to another chance meeting. Again their situations have changed and the evolution of their relationship philosophies is obvious. Harry is still witty and neurotic but he isn’t as cocky and sure of himself as he is when we first meet him. Sally starts off as peppy and exuberant but later we find her more credulous and naive. This is the heart of the film – watching these two people with seemingly warped views of relationships transform under the weight of reality. And all while the one true path to happiness may be right under their noses.
For me there are many reasons this film works so well. First is Nora Ephron’s Oscar nominated screenplay. It’s smart, razor sharp, and unflinching in its grounded portrayal of its characters. Much of that is thanks to contributions made by Crystal and Ryan but overall this is Ephron’s baby and she nails it. Credit also goes to director Rob Reiner. This was during a period when Reiner was making better films and much of it was taken from his life as a divorced single man. It’s solid filmmaking, something that can’t be said about many of his more recent movies.
And then there are the performances from Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan. It would have all fallen apart if the characters weren’t so easy to connect with. Crystal and Ryan draw us in the first moments we meet them. There is also a wonderful and charming chemistry between the two. You can’t help but get caught up in Crystal’s dry humor and Ryan’s infectious smile. They are so believable and you never doubt the authenticity of these two people. They are perfectly cast.
At times “When Harry Met Sally…” seems to draw out its one big question (will Harry and Sally ever get together?) longer than necessary and some people may get bogged down in the numerous back-and-forths between the different characters. But for me after all these years it’s still a fine romantic comedy that knows how to handle its characters and their situations. It’s a story of two lost souls who put their faith in their own wrong views of love while a much easier answer may be right before them. That’s a story I can get into.
Fond memories have surfaced bro. It’s been way too long since I watched this. A revisit wouldn’t go amiss at all. Fine work sir!
Thanks buddy. That’s how it was with me. I had not revisited this film in sometime and it sure was fun watching it again.
Agreed. This is my wife’s favorite movie, bar none, so I have seen some two dozen (or more) times in the last 18 years. There was once a point I could have recited most of it from memory.
And still, I’ve never gotten sick of it. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is my favorite all time rom-com, but this one is probably second. Such a smartly witty flick.
It’s really good isn’t it? And it’s funny how well it has aged. That just shows that good writing never gets old.
Amen.
Good review Keith. The times have changed and we’ve gotten better, more insightful rom-coms over the years, but this one still hits its mark when needed.
I don’t know, for me it seems like the majority of the modern romantic comedies are just terrible. I think this is an example of how to do them right.
Will have to check this out again sometime soon! Awesome review!
Thank you. It has aged well. It’s still a lot of fun.
What a standard. I agree, the two of them had great chemistry, and echo your thoughts that what passes for romantic comedies today pale in comparison. Nice review, Keith.
Thanks Cindy. This movie just shows that romantic comedies can be smart and funny. They don’t have to cling to clichés or raunch!
Nice review. I enjoyed this as well. Really wish Reiner could make another movie like this, he hasn’t done anything really good in over a decade.
You’re right. The quality of Reiner’s films has dropped dramatically. Thanks for reading.
Oh man, I’ve still not seen this one!! Nice review though, Keith!
Thank you! It’s definitely worth checking out.
Excellent movie, surprised you went so long without watching it. I generally hit it up at least once a year!
Its just not a film that I feel compelled to watch on a regular basis. That said, you’re right, it had been waaaay too long!
Classic movie which I haven’t watched in ages…should be revisiting it!
That’s exactly how it was with me. It’d been ages since I last watched it.
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